The transition from a farm and small-town high school to Nebraska Wesleyan University was exciting, but felt daunting. What would classes be like? How long before I made friends? Would I fit in? The only person I knew when I arrived on campus was my roommate and I didn’t know her that well. I’ve typically been comfortable meeting new people and finding connections.
There were several new student orientation events to welcome students and provide opportunities to meet others on campus. I participated in those activities, mindful I wanted to make others feel welcome as much as I wanted to be accepted. However, it was joining a sorority that cemented my sense of belonging. The upper class women genuinely reached out to help me and other new members feel a part of the sorority. Simple things like saying, “hi”, when they saw you on campus, inviting you to join them on study breaks to Goodrich Dairy or late-night talks in the hallways. I developed lasting friendship that remain today.
Wesleyan was a very welcoming community. Professors were approachable and contributed to the feeling it was a good fit for me. Being a small campus, it wasn’t as big an adjustment as I expected. My group of friends extended beyond my sorority, consisting of students and adults across campus. This positive atmosphere contributed to a wonderful college experience.
As I think back on this it reinforces my awareness of how important it is to reach out and welcome others.
~ 25+ First Lutheran Member
